Sunday, May 17, 2009

Oceanside

Kathy and I just sent a week at Oceanside, CA. We arrived on Saturday to meet with Ron and Pam and their family at the end of their stay there at the WorldMark.
They left for home on Sunday after a fun visit and Kathy and I spent the rest of the week having fun by ourselves.

Monday we drove done highway 101 along the coast and ended up in San Diego Harbor.

Tuesday we returned to Old Town San Diego and took a trolley tour of the city to learn more about the area.


















Wednesday, we attended an endowment session at the San Diego Temple.






















The rest of the week we spend shopping at the farmers market and second hand stores.




We really enjoyed our time together.








Ain't she cute !!!

Sunday, May 3, 2009



Washed Clean

I was standing on the front door step looking up at my mother. I was covered in wet slimy mud from head to foot. Cold and uncomfortable, I wanted to go inside and get the mud off of me.

Mother, on the other hand, was not about to let me into the house in my current condition.

She took my hand and led me around to the lawn and instructed me to wait. It wasn’t long before she had the garden hose ready to give me a good rinsing. I stood, cold and wet, as she completed the job and shivered as she once again took my hand and lead me to the front door step where she went to get a warm towel to dry my wet body before I was allowed to enter the house. Following a warm bath I felt clean and acceptable again, but with a new lesson about staying away from things that can make a person unclean.

My two friends and I had been playing in the field behind the house where my two best friends lived. It had recently rained and the irrigation ditches were wet and filled with small puddles of water. My friends and I were wearing our overshoes and found the small pools of water too hard to resist.

Standing in the puddles and stomping up and down with our overshoes made a glorious mud pit that squished and mushed each time we lifted a foot. Soon we had a large puddle of slimy wet mud that was almost as deep as our overshoes would permit without going over the top.

I was always looking for additional fun so I wanted more. I determined that if I could get some of the dirt from the edges of the ditch into the mud I could make the puddle larger and deeper.

I found a large sage brush that was hanging over the edge of the ditch and grabbing onto it, I commenced to stomp my feet up and down higher on the side of the ditch while anchoring my weight with the bush. I did not anticipate that the sage brush was not strong enough to hold the weight of my body until it was too late. Suddenly I found myself lying on my back in deep mud that was oozing up around me. My friends stood staring, not knowing what to do.

In an effort to get up, it was necessary for me to turn over and in so doing I became completely covered with exception of my face. I did not know what to do either. My fun had suddenly turned to a horrifying realization that I had made a mistake and my desire to go beyond what I knew to be safe had put me into a distressing situation.

I slowly climbed out of the ditch and with effort walked across the field to go home. Each step was filled with regret that I had not realized that I had made a bad choice and now was suffering the consequences. By the time I got home I was cold and shivering. I opened the door and called for mother.

A lesson such as this one early in life, I believe, has saved me from mistakes that could have otherwise made my life more difficult. Mother taught us that we should always stay well away from any situation that would cause us to sin. We should never think that we can disobey some of the Lord’s commandments without getting dirty. It is not possible to avoid the consequences of sin when we ignore the signs along the way which tell us that we are getting too close to the edge. Before we know it things will get out of our control and we will suffer or become unclean.

The marvelous thing about the gospel is that Jesus Christ, the Savior, is able to take the hose to us and clean us off so that we are able to enter his presence once again. This however, requires a repentant heart and a desire to change our lives to meet his standards. The process is neither pleasant nor comfortable and may take time to get us completely clean.

Years later, my mother, in an effort to teach her grandchildren this same lesson planned an activity where we hiked up a hill in Moapa, Nevada to the top of a flat plateau. The plateau was topped with cliffs almost entirely around it that were 30 to 40 feet high. Once we were all on top she taught us the lesson to never walk too close to the edge of the cliff. This is like keeping ourselves in the path the Lord wants us to follow to avoid the chance of getting too close to the edge and falling. It seems to be a natural thing for us to feel like we can walk close to the edge and nothing bad will happen to us, however, as my story shows, if we are not completely in the Lord’s path we may fall.

My greatest desire in this life is that I and my family will all stay clean so that we can all enter our heavenly father's home and experience the warm associations of being clean for eternity.

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Green House




We are getting a jump on the vegetable garden this year. I have built a greenhouse over the garden area and planted tomatoes and peppers. It will come down in May, when it gets hot and go back up again in the fall when it starts to get cold. The plastic screen is over four 20 foot PVC pipes held in the ground with old fencing pipe. I was sweating and my glasses were all fogged up by the time Kathy and I had the plants in the ground yesterday.

Sunday, February 22, 2009


We had a fantastic Stake conference today. It was one of those where the general authorities broadcast from Salt Lake to 68 stakes in northern California including the Rocklin stake where we live.

Both Kathy and I came away with an answer to a question that we have had for a long time. That was whether we should plan on staying in California now and after I retire. We both felt strongly that we were being counseled to remain where we are and continue to serve the Lord in our area.

Even with recent economic difficulties that have impacted all of our family, we feel that the Lord has blessings in store for those who will stand on his side and do his will. As you know we were very active in the prop 8 campaign last year to protect marriage. that was a very different experience and in some way very challenging to Kathy and I. Going to people doors and asking them about their views on the topic was both scary and exhilarating. Standing the on the Raley's corner holding sign and waving to cars as they go by was also a mix of good and bad exeriences.

We will go on a mission when it is time, but we feel like we are in the right place now. It is sure nice to have a confirmation from the Lord with questions such as this.

Our faith in the Lord has been strengthened and continues to go as we see his hand in our lives and the lives or our children and grandchildren.

I was looking at LDS.org this afternoon and found a wonderful link that I had not see before. You will find it full of good instruction as well:
http://www.lds.org/ldsorg/v/index.jsp?vgnextoid=97ca813d71189110VgnVCM1000003a94610aRCRD&locale=0

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

I was trying to get Kathy to add to the blog, but was unsuccessful. We have been busy as of late with the holidays and new year.

I was thinking about my dad today and thought that I would add to the blog a silly little poem that he used to say all the time. Here goes.

What a funny little bird a frog are,
don't got no tail most hardly,
when him hops, him jumps,
when him jumps, him hops,
don't it awful.....

His other famous phrase when he was upset at us was:
Do you want me to kick your pants?
We knew what he meant, and that straightened us up.
I made the mistake of suggesting that I let him kick my pants after I took them off once and regretted it later.

I was a very fast runner when I was about 10 years old. I however learned that dad was faster once when I tried to get away from him when I had done something wrong.

Well enough reminiscing about my dad. Sure miss him sometimes.

Friday, January 30, 2009

I Dare You!

I LOVE FUN and this is FUN! DO IT!



Pay it Forward Exchange




I copied this straight from my friend's blog and I was the third to comment on hers so now it's your turn!
This is how it works:



Pay it Forward Exchange is based on the concept of the movie "Pay it Forward".
I will send a hand made gift to the first three people who leave a comment on my blog requesting to join the PIF exchange.



All the gifts will be made and posted out 'sometime within the next year'.
How exciting to not know when your surprise package will arrive!



What you do in return, is pay it forward by making the same promise on your blog.
This Exchange is only open to those with active websites or blogs.



ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS PROMISE TO POST THIS SAME 'PAY IT FORWARD' MESSAGE ONTO YOUR BLOG, WHICH MUST BE ACTIVE IN ORDER TO PLAY. YOU WILL PAY IT FORWARD TO THREE PEOPLE WHO COMMENT ON YOUR BLOG.
I'd love for you to join me! Will you?



Other comments are welcome,
but only the first three will be my Pay it Forward recipients.
Sounds like fun, right?


No pressure, just fun.

Monday, December 8, 2008
















We discovered the multiple talents of family members during our Thanksgiving Holiday with the entire family.